Want to get the most out of sugar dating? Create a sugar baby vision board to help you reach your goals faster.
Let’s be honest. You probably don’t want a sugar daddy just to have a sugar daddy. You’ve probably chosen this style of dating to spend your time with someone who has the means to help reach your life goals. Creating a sugar baby vision board can help you get there faster.
Maybe you’re just getting started with sugar dating. Or maybe you’ve been at it for a while but aren’t getting the results you want.
Sugar dating isn’t just all about the money. It’s also about experiencing what life has to offer. You need to know exactly what you’re looking for BEFORE you even make a profile.
This post will help you get really specific and visualize your goals to help you achieve success in the sugar bowl.
What is a vision board?
Also called a mood board or dream board, a vision board is simply a visual representation of your goals. It can include both images and words to give you daily inspiration and motivation to meet those goals.
It doesn’t even have to be a physical board. You can create a vision board any place you see daily, such as:
- In a planner
- On your fridge
- A cork board over your desk
- Your laptop desktop background
- Smartphone wallpaper
- A secret Pinterest board
- In a special album under “Saved Posts” in your Instagram account
As a sugar baby, you may choose to keep this part of you life private. Not wanting to showcase your corkboard of cash photos to friends and family you invite into your home is understandable.
Give your goals a date
A vision board should span a specific time period, for example 2021. It should include goals achievable (or mostly achievable) within that time period.
I didn’t include any international travel on my board this year, even though travel is one of my passions. Due to the pandemic, we have no idea when life will get back to normal. Don’t set yourself up for failure by putting your goals strictly in the hands of external forces.
What to ask yourself before creating your sugar baby vision board
Why do you want a sugar daddy to begin with? It’s probably not to just to have one.
Most new sugars skip this step. They jump into the sugar bowl because they want a “rich man,” and it’s one of the man reasons new sugar babies fail. You need to be REALLY specific on what it is you want out of this lifestyle.
While one woman may focus on building a new wardrobe for her new career, another may be looking to collect luxury travel experiences. Just a reminder that designer items are NOT required in this lifestyle, unless you desire them.
Receiving designer goods as gifts is great, but a closet full of designer bags won’t help you build long-term wealth or an emergency fund.
We all have different goals in this lifestyle. The vision board process only works if you’re honest with yourself on what YOU want, so don’t blindly copy the goals of what you think you should have as a sugar baby.
Do the work, dig deep, and uncover what it is you really want in life. If you haven’t already, I highly recommend reading the book You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero.
Categories to include on your sugar baby vision board
These are a few examples of categories I always include on my vision board.
Sugar relationship goals
What do you really want in a sugar daddy? Think in both terms of material standards and personal qualities.
What personal qualities do you want in a man that line up with your goals?
Write down two or three adjectives that describe your perfect sugar daddy.
For example, my passion is travel, so having someone adventurous and able to travel is important to me. And of course, I want someone who is naturally generous to help me to financially reach my goals.
My adjectives would be adventurous and generous.
Material & financial standards
What wealth level does your perfect man need to have that line up with your goals?
Ask yourself what you want him to have, and WHY:
- Do you want him to buy you flowers for no reason because you love the way fresh flowers make you feel when displayed in your home?
- Would you like him to have a yacht because you love to spend time on the water?
- Wish to travel the world in luxury and fill your passport with stamps?
- Want an allowance to help fund your dream of purchasing you own property?
- Do you want an entrepreneur to gain mentorship for your own business?
Physical & mental health
To be successful in life, you need to take care of yourself first. You can’t begin to give to others without first giving to yourself. Having success in the sugar bowl is all about having killer confidence and knowing you are worthy of living the life YOU want.
Examples of areas you may want to focus on could be:
- Daily exercise
- Healthy/clean eating
- Mental health, such as reaching out to a therapist if necessary
Work or career
Have you always dreamed of having you own business so you can set your own schedule? Or maybe you want to find that perfect position in your industry. Whatever it is you want, a sugar daddy can provide mentorship or the networking connections you need to succeed.
The level up journey never stops. It’s not always about formal education and getting a degree. It’s about always learning.
Check out your local college. It may be worth paying for a course you’re interested in to help you decide if the topic is something you’re passionate about and want to pursue further.
One of the best ways to fit in with the rich in real life is by participating in affluent hobbies. Tennis, skiing, fine art, wine or volunteering can put you in line with meeting someone who can help you get to where you want to be in life.
Always wanted to learn to play tennis? Include a photo of someone playing tennis on your vision board, and don’t forget to include some tennis outfit inspiration!
Finances & money
What do you want to accomplish financially? Pay off debt? Start investing in the stock market? Save to buy your own property? Buy a new car? No matter how big or small your goal, if you can envision it, you can achieve it.
Interested in getting started with investing? Read my post The Ultimate Beginner’s Guide to the Stock Market.
Books to help you manifest your goals
Every successful woman reads daily, so get in the habit today. My recommended books to go with creating your sugar baby vision board are:
You can create a sugar baby vision board at any time. Every day is a fresh start!
2020 showed us the rules. Now we can play the game.Jenna Rae Hudson
2020 took a toll on everyone. It changed our way of life, but now we know what to expect, we can adapt our game plan. You got this!
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What’s on your sugar baby vision board? Share with us in the comments!